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girls (and guys! :P)
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i need your opinions..
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CLEO August 2008 issue is discussing this topic and before i go digging inside the scope, i need your opinions...do drop whatever you may say about "Does Good Men Make Bad Boyfriends" topic...
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than i'll list down the 'why's from all of you k!?
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okeh???!!
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thanks donutsssss!
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18 comments:
yes, i agree!
susah nk cari yg balance skang nih, meaning jahat tapi baik, baik tapi notty2 sket...rreeeoww!! i likeee...tu yg jumpa terus kawen..
hehe...our partner mesti balance, boleh dibawa berbincang, tau tgg jwb, caring, tau hukum agama, but at the same time ada gak flaws dia yg kdg2 cam kiut, kdg2 cam gilos..
lumrahla kan, we're only human...
cth cam auntie aku, hsbnd pegawai kat pusat islam, org tgk cam alim giller, of course la kan bab agama dia tip top...tapi sedihnyer x tau tgg jwb dunia, pegi dakwah 2-3 bulan x bagi duit belanja plus x ambik tau hal anak2...so camno? baik luaran jek....baik ko amik yg nakal2 baik...yg penting ko dah nampak and terima 'kejahatan' n 'kebaikan' orang tuh...okay, enuff donuts from me! daa~ =D
mrs. kamal,
been there done that (macam banyak kali je aku ni...)
right time, wrong man
right man, wrong timing
:(
adakah kita perlu boyfriend yang baik tapi setan bila dah jadi suami atau kita perlu ada boyfriend yang nakal tapi baik, setia dsbgnya sebagai seorang suami??
point penting kt sini....xbleh jump into conclusion terus..it does not mean die sgt baik mase ko couple ngan die then die akan baik gak after u get married...
u never know the true person identity without consulting with the people around him..ask his best buddies, die cmne and all dat..ask his bros n sis..ask opinions wif ur loved ones about him.gunakan method2 kajian yang ade...questionaire, observation and analyze...
hehehhehe...
happy weekend!!!
okey.. here the donut..
kalau seingat aku masa zaman sekolah dulu.. girls takkan suka boys yg skema. awek lawa2 mesti sangkut ngan penyangak sekolah.. be it kaki ponteng ke, kaki merokok ke.. kalau tak ngan penyangak sekolah pun.. misti ngan sporstman yg berjaya tapi belajar lembab ya Rabbi..
jadi.. mcm ada betulnya jugak yg good men won't fall to good women.. vice versa.
tapi setiap bende ada pengecualiannya. rukhsah bak kata org sekolah agama. maka, not necessarily good men won't fall for good women.
it is really subjective.
AND IN THE END THE LOVE WE TAKE IS EQUAL TO THE LOVE WE MAKE..
BEATLES
i have to agree with medcham on his 2nd para..tapi itu zaman sekolah, fikiran tak matang n blm gatal nak kawen..hehehe..
apepun balance is important & don't generalize men or ppl for that matter..bcoz 'nice' is subjective and ppl change..
be with someone because he is the right person for u :-)
my point is, some people may say i'm nice & sweet (perasan!!jgn marah) but i may be a bitch to someone else..
Dear,
Its the same thing with guys. This uncertainty. Trying to find the one who 'clicks'. When a guy does it, he's playing around. When a girl does it, she's unsure and being careful.
Its true, you can never be sure what you get yourself into. Even after years of knowing a guy, you will never know everything.
However many times my heart have been broken and hopes have been destroyed, I still think the best in a person. It may sound stupid but if you think everyone has bad intentions, you can never trust a person and let people in.
I may have a string of bad relationships, but I went in with full hope and optimism, thinking that this could be it. Its unfair to put those kind of pressure but its all or nothing.
I dont do things half way.
princess~syeena,
yeah, hanya jauhari yang kenal maniam, eh manikam kan...so dun jump into conclusion!
erm, good point there tho'
:D
medcham ck,
i'd always fall for that 'good' boys in school...best student, nerd, specky, pakai songkok (hahahaha bengong!) but definitely i think my heart goes for the 'adventurous' one kot sebab having this good boys sometimes boring la...
:D
najeeb,
chomel...send me the mp3 :D
adzsha,
yerp, i do agree with medcham 2nd para jugak!..
"be with someone because he is the right person for u :-)" ---- this is HARD ok...specially to our bitchiness hahahahaha (i pun ok!)
:D
didi,
erm...bukan semua orang jahat tu kejam, bukan semua orang baik itu menyenangkan..
adakah lelaki kejam atau perempuan yang kejam?
look in every situation kot
n nway...i don't do things half way either..buat sehabis baik!!
:P
we come to love by not finding a perfect person, but learning to see an imperfect person perfectly...
or so i heard. don't really have much experience in that area. anyway, just a thought. :)
pandangan saye :
highly depends how u perceive someone. sometimes.. orang lain rase dia baik dh ngan kau. tapi kau rase mcm ade kekurangan kat dia. try to pull out the best part of him!
adni ariff,
lets not think to much on this topic la..ape kata kita serahkan pada Dia semuanya...terima dengan hati yang ikhlas....
(tapi puas hati kah?)
ummphs,
yerp, pull out the best from him and he notice a minor defect on us and bum! there goes your love one..turn down/off by the mini minor so-called imperfecion...
adil ke???
owh, saya dulu raver...saya memang sangat nakal!
kini, saya bakal menjadi papa mithali...saya sudah menjadi baik.
maka, saya tidaklah 'good' sangat namun tidaklah sangat 'bad'...lelaki yang nakal dan gila-gila remaja ittew pasti akan berubah apabila sudah menjumpai wanita yang bakal menjadi isterinya...
lainlah kalau bakal isteri tu pun party animal jugak! ahahah! (apa aku merapu ni?)
zahack,
papa mithali lil z..hehehe
dulu masa sekolah, ustazah penah cakap kalau kita baik, insyaAllah tuhan jodohkan jodoh kita baik juga..tapi itu semua kehendakNya kan..kita doa je la yang terbaik..
uuuu party animal tu :D
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